I have really oily skin which I think is the cause if my spots?

My cheeks are normal but my forehead,nose and chin (not so much my chin) are very oily. My mum has the same thing, and she thinks my spots will go but I really want them to go now. I use a beutrogina blackhead and spot treating facewash twice day and use grease lightning from lush, tea tree water from lush, and clearasil pads and night cream, and they won't go. The redness goes down sometimes but it always comes back. I'm 13 btw. I also pop my spots pretty much every night. Should I stop? Can anyone recommend any products? Thanks